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189: AIN' EVEN BEEN PLANTED YET
189: AIN' EVEN BEEN PLANTED YET
Woman painting in the storm, Burano, Italy, 1977, Jean Gaumy Hi hi, Here's some art, internet, and ideas for you: I’ve never thought of myself as a person...
·buttondown.com·
189: AIN' EVEN BEEN PLANTED YET
A Time of Earnestness
A Time of Earnestness
Laura Olin’s newsletter of “art, internet, and ideas” is a favorite of mine (subscribe here), and I appreciate
·kottke.org·
A Time of Earnestness
Election Post-Mortem: Know What You Control
Election Post-Mortem: Know What You Control
If you’re stuck dealing with a bug that you can’t seem to fix, there’s nothing wrong with getting some white space from it. No harm in that.
·tedium.co·
Election Post-Mortem: Know What You Control
Some Reasons Why Some Men Are Successful Fathers
Some Reasons Why Some Men Are Successful Fathers
Note: The following is an excerpt from The Building of Boyhood: A Manual for Parents, published in 1933. “Some Reasons Why Some Men Are Successful Fathers” By Frank H. Cheley They Believe that being a father is the greatest privilege given any man, and so take their fatherhood seriously. They Believe that all boys are mostly good, […]
·artofmanliness.com·
Some Reasons Why Some Men Are Successful Fathers
How I organized my time as a full-time CTO
How I organized my time as a full-time CTO
My calendar is already full 😱 this is how I included many other side initiatives!
·newsletter.eng-leadership.com·
How I organized my time as a full-time CTO
The paradox of points
The paradox of points
Points aren’t just for games. Points are how we keep score and decide what to do next. Pick your scorekeeping wisely. Too much focus on the score can bend us or break us, pushing us to engage…
·seths.blog·
The paradox of points
Why Carnegie’s Rules Are Evergreen
Why Carnegie’s Rules Are Evergreen
A few weeks ago, I went on a road trip to Montana with Rod Clark, a photographer friend. On the way back, we stopped in Wells, NV, to get food at Sher-E-Panjab Dhaba, a converted truck stop diner t…
·om.co·
Why Carnegie’s Rules Are Evergreen
There's Always A Storm Coming
There's Always A Storm Coming
Here in South Florida where Gapingvoid is based, we just survived another Hurricane season.  Watching a few hurricanes nearly miss us naturally led us to
·gapingvoid.com·
There's Always A Storm Coming
“I can’t go for that”
“I can’t go for that”
Culture has stability. “The way things are around here.” When we are pushed too far from our norms, life gets stressful. Some of the people in the systems that used to keep things stabl…
·seths.blog·
“I can’t go for that”
At all costs
At all costs
Principles have a priority. Isaac Asimov’s three rules of robotics were: First LawA robot may not injure a human being or, through inaction, allow a human being to come to harm. Second LawA r…
·seths.blog·
At all costs
Why Failure is the best teacher.
Why Failure is the best teacher.
For the sports fan in me, this has been a bit of a tough week. Two teams I normally like lost in a humiliating fashion. The New York Yankees lost to the L.A. Dodgers in the MLB World Series (4-1), …
·om.co·
Why Failure is the best teacher.
The problem with ‘very’
The problem with ‘very’
It’s a lazy amplifier. “Very” can modify almost any adjective, but it might not deliver our intended message. Putting it in front of a positive like “charming” or &#82…
·seths.blog·
The problem with ‘very’
Choose your fuel wisely
Choose your fuel wisely
If worrying about paying the mortgage gets you motivated to lean hard into the next project, don’t be surprised if that sort of fear arises every time you have hard work to do. If your goal i…
·seths.blog·
Choose your fuel wisely
Stop telling me about yourself
Stop telling me about yourself
Doritos recently sent their chips to space. They developed a special chip that was eaten in gravity-free outer space by real astronauts, and live streamed
·gapingvoid.com·
Stop telling me about yourself
Boring to who?
Boring to who?
Sometimes, marketers, musicians or speakers dig themselves into a solipsistic rabbit hole. They’ve heard their stuff before. They think everyone else has too. So they bury the lede, look for …
·seths.blog·
Boring to who?
Important problems
Important problems
Some problems are easy to solve, others are difficult, requiring a lot more labor, willpower, resources and coordination. Some problems have simple solutions, while others are complex in what it ta…
·seths.blog·
Important problems
Decisions as effort
Decisions as effort
Why are we more likely to get tasks done than to take on new initiatives? Checking something off a to-do list requires far less emotional energy than adding something to the list was in the first p…
·seths.blog·
Decisions as effort
The Scariest Place to Be
The Scariest Place to Be
Imagine a curve. Amazon is on the left, hyper-efficient, where you can buy a nice handbag made in China for $15. Hermes is on the right, hyper-inefficient
·gapingvoid.com·
The Scariest Place to Be
The Secret Ingredient? It's Not the Food
The Secret Ingredient? It's Not the Food
After half a century working there, Joe Holtz, the director of Brooklyn’s Park Slope Co-op, one of the oldest food co-ops in the country is stepping down.
·gapingvoid.com·
The Secret Ingredient? It's Not the Food
What do we owe the future?
What do we owe the future?
You are someone’s ancestor. Most immediately, you are the ancestor of the you of tomorrow. That’s why we don’t spend every penny in our bank account, why we put leftovers in the f…
·seths.blog·
What do we owe the future?
The Story Behind Your Story
The Story Behind Your Story
There’s a hidden story hanging over all of our heads, subtly influencing everything we do, say, and think. Think about it – what brings people to their
·gapingvoid.com·
The Story Behind Your Story
Confused about good
Confused about good
How often do we assume that popular things are good, and that good things become popular? If your work doesn’t catch on, does that mean it wasn’t good? In almost every field, people wit…
·seths.blog·
Confused about good
Moving toward ease
Moving toward ease
“Ease” isn’t the same as “easy.” In fact, they’re often at odds. Easy work is hardly worth our effort. It can deaden us instead of giving us the chance to bring …
·seths.blog·
Moving toward ease
The interaction cascade
The interaction cascade
Walk into an office, and the person behind the desk begins an interaction. You respond (or react). They respond (or react) in turn. Answer the phone. Caller ID tells you who it is–are you smi…
·seths.blog·
The interaction cascade
How to Form Habits in Real Life - Scott H Young
How to Form Habits in Real Life - Scott H Young
Making any new habit is not usually one habit, but many. Not a cue-response relationship, but a collection of flexible strategies that deal with most scenarios reality throws at you. When you’ve done that, you’re acquired a kind of expertise—not of a subject, but of yourself.
·scotthyoung.com·
How to Form Habits in Real Life - Scott H Young