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Sunday Firesides: You Can't Want It More Than They Do
Sunday Firesides: You Can't Want It More Than They Do
Your marriage is struggling. You’ve invited your wife to do couples therapy, to go out for date nights, to spend more time together in general. But she’s refused all these invitations.  Your daughter has the potential to be a champion swimmer. But she isn’t into the sport, and getting her to go to practice is […]
·artofmanliness.com·
Sunday Firesides: You Can't Want It More Than They Do
Jevons paradox is not surprising
Jevons paradox is not surprising
When a resource can be used more efficiently, we end up using more of the thing, not less. So, when cars get better gas mileage, people drive more, and consumption can actually go up. When AI learn…
·seths.blog·
Jevons paradox is not surprising
Responsibility and blame
Responsibility and blame
It’s tempting to hand it to other people. If someone else takes the blame, if they accept the responsibility, then we get satisfaction and we’re off the hook. Alas, this doesn’t w…
·seths.blog·
Responsibility and blame
Are you playing half-court tennis?
Are you playing half-court tennis?
During a recent interview over on the Dwarkesh Patel channel, Professor Sarah CM Paine (who teaches Geopolitics  over at The US Naval War College) gave a
·gapingvoid.com·
Are you playing half-court tennis?
Why We're Measuring the Wrong Thing
Why We're Measuring the Wrong Thing
Apparently, we were a lot happier last year than we are this year. At least that’s what the studies say, (and we all know they’re right). The United
·gapingvoid.com·
Why We're Measuring the Wrong Thing
Generosity and fear
Generosity and fear
Fear is self-focused. Day to day, our fear is about us. What will happen if we give that speech, launch that project, get stuck in traffic, are eaten by an alligator… And generosity is about …
·seths.blog·
Generosity and fear
How to Learn Vocabulary in Another Language - Scott H Young
How to Learn Vocabulary in Another Language - Scott H Young
When it comes to our native languages, researchers already have a pretty good idea of how we learn words, and it’s not through studying vocabulary lists. Here's what it takes.
·scotthyoung.com·
How to Learn Vocabulary in Another Language - Scott H Young
“This time will be different”
“This time will be different”
Why is that? The new diet. The fundraising after a natural disaster. The relationship. The hype cycle of a new technology or the media frenzy around a hot new fad or candidate… It always feel…
·seths.blog·
“This time will be different”
The Hedonic Treadmill
The Hedonic Treadmill
Hack the Motivation Trap: Protect Your Team
·leadership-letters.com·
The Hedonic Treadmill
The Strategic Vs. Tactical Mindset: A look into the balance of today's and tomorrow's tasks
The Strategic Vs. Tactical Mindset: A look into the balance of today's and tomorrow's tasks
Explore the balance between strategic and tactical mindsets in the field of engineering. This article discusses the importance of both perspectives in problem-solving, goal setting, and planning for the future. It also highlights how the focus shifts from tactical to strategic as engineers advance in their careers. Ideal for engineering leaders and team members seeking to improve their productivity and strategic thinking.
·leadshorizons.com·
The Strategic Vs. Tactical Mindset: A look into the balance of today's and tomorrow's tasks
Putting up the big numbers
Putting up the big numbers
Some people go to the gym for health and energy. Some go to lift more weight than they did yesterday (or more than the person next to them). You can start a company to make an impact and surround y…
·seths.blog·
Putting up the big numbers
Obsessions vs Hobbies
Obsessions vs Hobbies
Photo by Álvaro Serrano on Unsplash hobby: a pursuit outside one’s regular occupation engaged in especially for relaxation obsession: a persistent disturbing preoccupation with an often unrea…
·om.co·
Obsessions vs Hobbies
Kinds of courage
Kinds of courage
Courage is a generous act that involves risk. It’s not courageous to hang out with friends and make a crank phone call. The risk involved might be actual risk (it took courage to go to the mo…
·seths.blog·
Kinds of courage
Why Certainty is a Red Flag
Why Certainty is a Red Flag
This post is an idea inspired by the Dr Pippa Malmgren interview over at the Infinite Loops Podcast #167. According to Dr Malmgren, because certainty does
·gapingvoid.com·
Why Certainty is a Red Flag
Boyle’s Law
Boyle’s Law
There’s no such thing as work life balance. There’s simply life. And you spend part of your life at work. One way to change the pressure of work is to expand or contract the size of the…
·seths.blog·
Boyle’s Law
Daniel Kahneman's Legacy: the Myth of Reason
Daniel Kahneman's Legacy: the Myth of Reason
For the last couple of centuries, ever since the Enlightenment (and even well before that), we’ve been enamored with the idea of being ruled by reason and
·gapingvoid.com·
Daniel Kahneman's Legacy: the Myth of Reason
Working With Your Hands Is Good for Your Brain
Working With Your Hands Is Good for Your Brain
Activities like writing, gardening and knitting can improve your cognition and mood. Tapping, typing and scrolling? Less so.
·nytimes.com·
Working With Your Hands Is Good for Your Brain
The B2B questions
The B2B questions
Questions people ask themselves when looking at a web page aimed at businesses (B2B). They are rhetorical, but should give you a place to begin: Is it my job to deal with this? Who sent me here? Wi…
·seths.blog·
The B2B questions
TDD's Missing Skill: Behavioral Composition
TDD's Missing Skill: Behavioral Composition
I appreciate Mr. Zakharchenko’s extensive critique of TDD even as I have some reservations regarding his language. He tried TDD. He thought about it. He put his thoughts out there. He knew he was going to get a reaction & he did—300K views, 160 comments, 190 reposts, 1000 likes.
·tidyfirst.substack.com·
TDD's Missing Skill: Behavioral Composition
“But what if I’m wrong?
“But what if I’m wrong?
If we’re going to come together and invest the time in conversation, in research or in analysis, we should begin by understanding what would be required for you or I to change our minds. If y…
·seths.blog·
“But what if I’m wrong?
Belonging at Scale
Belonging at Scale
Belonging at scale is an age-old problem. When your company is just a wee startup with a few people renting desks in a coworking space, it's easier to
·gapingvoid.com·
Belonging at Scale
In A Crisis We Can Only Afford What We Can Already Do
In A Crisis We Can Only Afford What We Can Already Do
I've written, prescriptively, that money shouldn't buy anything that matters: not healthcare or education, for example. Anything we can do, we can afford But at the top level money can't buy anything you couldn't do anyway. Anything we can't do, we can only buy from others. The Britian of the thirties was still, despite all…
·ianwelsh.net·
In A Crisis We Can Only Afford What We Can Already Do
5 Keys to Get the Most out of the Feynman Technique - Scott H Young
5 Keys to Get the Most out of the Feynman Technique - Scott H Young
The idea of self-explanations took off and became a studying meme that has since gone far beyond my own audience. Here are 5 ideas you must keep in mind to get the most out of it.
·scotthyoung.com·
5 Keys to Get the Most out of the Feynman Technique - Scott H Young
Shields down
Shields down
Michael Lopp helped coin an important term. When you’re a skilled craftsperson with high market value, there may be recruiters knocking on your door. An employee who has ‘shields up&#82…
·seths.blog·
Shields down
Towards a Philosophy of Household Management
Towards a Philosophy of Household Management
“Household management” has become something of an interest and a watchword for me this year, due to the coincidental confluence of two books coming into my life at the same time. The first is Home Comforts: The Art and Science of Keeping House by Cheryl Mendelson. Several months ago, two friends, one male and one […]
·artofmanliness.com·
Towards a Philosophy of Household Management
Why Normal is NOT good
Why Normal is NOT good
As an organization grows in scale, the idiosyncrasy and distinctiveness that was originally informed by the taste of the founders moves toward the mean. Over time, things get more average. That’s b…
·om.co·
Why Normal is NOT good
The drift to normal
The drift to normal
As an organization grows in scale, the idiosyncrasy and distinctiveness that was originally informed by the taste of the founders moves toward the mean. Over time, things get more average. That&#82…
·seths.blog·
The drift to normal
Explaining yourself
Explaining yourself
The only reason we need to go into detail about our resume, the details of our new idea or the features of a product is to cause action to happen. And action is the result of tension, status or aff…
·seths.blog·
Explaining yourself