The hard part isn’t good ideas. It never has been. The hard part is choosing. Ask GPT for ten subtitles for your book, or sixteen ways to hold a surprise party, and you’ll be delighted …
If so, it might be worth learning. If so, it might pay to let someone who has learned it take care of it. Coding is a skill. But it’s not clear that the person who knows how to code should be…
Have you ever had an interaction with someone where you asked them question after question about themselves, but they never asked you a single thing? What was supposed to be a cooperative, back-and-forth dance, became a one-sided monologue. They did all the talking; you did all the listening. There’s a name for this all-too-common phenomenon: […]
Robert Johnson is known as the king of the Delta blues. One reason is that his small output was brilliant. The other, bigger reason is that the recordings that remain of his short life are among th…
Evolutionary social scientist (and also one of the co-founders of Cards Against Humanity of all things), David Pinsof, has one of the most amusing blogs
If you go to a health food store and buy some pills with selenium, colloidal silver or other mysterious substances in them, it’s possible that they’ll make you feel a bit better. On the…
“Suppose I am wrong?” is the most rarely asked question by those with most need to ask it
Elon Musk is thought to have paid about $44 billion to buy Twitter. That was last October. Yesterday he made his latest attempt to wreck it.
He posted these tweets:
Not only did he introduce limits on the number of tweets a person could see when his whole business model is utterly...
The future never arrives, of course, but it has a powerful force that’s impossible to avoid. We can see it as a threshold, a doorway toward something new. Or we can fight it as an unwanted ch…
Podcast #908: Would You Have Been a Patriot or a Loyalist?
When Americans think back to the War of Independence, most are apt to feel that, had they lived back then, they would have been Patriots for sure. In retrospect, the decision to rebel and get out from under the thumb of British rule seems inevitable. Yet only around a third of colonists ever declared themselves […]
Sunday Firesides: What Pattern Do You Want to Set?
You come home from a hard day at work feeling like you could use a stiff drink. You contemplate sleeping in and skipping your morning workout because you stayed up a little later than usual last night. Your kid is throwing a tantrum in a store because he wants you to buy him a toy. […]
One show can make Netflix’s year. One stock can make the numbers for an investor. One player can drive a team to victory. The key is, “I’m not sure which one it’s going to b…
Digital abundance creates a new problem. Most of our lives are filled with “or” decisions. You can have this or that. You can save money for the big party or you can go out for lunch. Y…
For a certain cohort of high-performing students at famous colleges, graduate school feels irresistible. If you’re good at school, the challenge and offer of law school, med school or a famou…
Culture makes it tempting (and easy) to insulate ourselves from reality. Credit card debt is an invisible burden, until it’s not. Ignoring the changes in our climate makes our days easier, bu…
In 1990, what would become one of the most famous quotes from Jack Welch, the late business titan and former CEO of GE, was featured in an annual report.
Thoreau's 16 Essential Quotes on Books and Reading
Henry David Thoreau never had a standard professional life (though we can still learn much from his ideas about work). Yet he was productive in his own way, keeping to a daily routine that was broken into two main chunks: in the mornings he read and wrote at his desk; in the afternoons he sauntered […]
Crisp faces many opponents: entropy, laziness, time, compromise and false shortcuts. And fear. Most of all, fear. Things rarely become crispy on their own. Instead, it requires care and effort. An …
Andrew Reiner writing on his research into the emotional struggles of men:
They receive very mixed messages: Men are too soft. Men are toxic. But one thing is clear: traditional tropes of masculinity — the tough guy who swallows his feelings and solves his own problems — no longer serve boys, men
When you welcome a child into the world, folks often tell you: “Savor this time. The days are long, but the years are short!” This is certainly sage and accurate counsel. There are moments as a parent when you can’t believe how quickly your kids are growing up. Yet, the fact that a culture of […]